75+ Goodnight Messages For Her (To Make Her Smile Instantly)

Let's be honest. Sending a "gn" text is the bare minimum. It's the "k" of the evening. It's a missed opportunity.

The last message you send before she goes to sleep is the one that sits in her mind. It's your last chance to make her smile, make her feel special, and make her excited to talk to you tomorrow.

But you're tired. You're out of ideas. You're not sure what to say.

We've got you covered. Here is the ultimate list of goodnight messages for any situation. Copy, paste, and be the best part of her night.

1. The Short, Sweet & Simple

(Use these when you're just starting out, or for a simple, loving check-in.)

1. Sweet dreams. 🌙

2. Goodnight, sleep tight.

3. Sleep well. Talk to you tomorrow.

4. Dreaming of you...

5. Goodnight. Rest well.

6. Thinking of you. Goodnight.

7. Can't wait to talk to you tomorrow.

8. Goodnight. You're on my mind.

9. Sleep peacefully.

10. Goodnight, [Her Name]. ❤️

11. Rest up. You deserve it.

12. Had a great day talking to you. Goodnight.

2. The Romantic & Heartfelt

(Use these when you're in an established relationship and want to make her feel loved.)

1. I wish I was there to kiss you goodnight.

2. My day could have been terrible, but it wouldn't matter. Ending it talking to you makes everything perfect.

3. I'm going to bed with a huge smile on my face because of you.

4. I love you. Goodnight.

5. I'm the luckiest guy in the world to be able to say goodnight to you.

6. I fall asleep faster just so I can dream about you sooner.

7. I hope you know how much I hate saying goodnight to you.

8. I love you more every day. Goodnight, my love.

9. You're the last thing I think about before I sleep and the first thing I think about when I wake up.

10. I'm already looking forward to your "good morning" text.

11. Sleep well, my queen.

12. I wish I could hold you right now. Sweet dreams.

13. The day is over, but my love for you is eternal. Goodnight.

3. The Flirty & Playful

(Use these to build anticipation, create a spark, or just make her blush.)

1. Dream of me tonight... I'll be dreaming of you. 😉

2. Try not to miss me too much.

3. My bed feels empty without you in it.

4. I wish I was kissing you goodnight instead of texting you.

5. Let's hope your dreams are as good-looking as I am.

6. Can't stop thinking about [insert a flirty callback to your last date/convo]. Goodnight.

7. What are you wearing to bed? Just curious.

8. Hurry up and go to sleep... I want to hear all about your dreams of me tomorrow.

9. Goodnight. Don't let the bedbugs bite... unless they're me.

10. I'm sending you a virtual hug and a real kiss. Goodnight.

11. I'm trying to sleep, but I can't stop thinking about you.

12. Sleep well... and try to keep your dreams PG-13.

13. Let's pick this up in our dreams.

4. The "Long-Distance" Message

(Use these when you're apart and want to close the gap.)

1. I'm staring at the moon and thinking of how we're both under the same one.

2. I hate that I'm not there to hold you. Sleep well and know I'm thinking of you.

3. Counting down the days (and nights) until I can kiss you goodnight in person.

4. This distance is temporary, but my love for you isn't. Goodnight.

5. Every night we're apart is one night closer to being together again.

6. Sending you all my love across the miles. Sleep tight.

7. My pillow is a poor substitute for you. Goodnight.

8. Close your eyes and pretend I'm right there beside you.

9. I'm just here, cuddling my phone because it's the next best thing to cuddling you.

10. Can't wait until my "goodnight" text is just me whispering in your ear.

5. The "After a Great Date" Message

(Use these to lock in the connection and end the night perfectly.)

1. Home safe. I had an amazing time with you tonight. Goodnight.

2. I'm already replaying our date in my head. Sleep well.

3. I'm not sure how I'm going to sleep tonight... I'm still smiling.

4. Tonight was perfect. You're perfect. Goodnight.

5. Thanks for the best night. I can't wait to do it again.

6. You're even more incredible than I imagined. Goodnight.

7. I'll be smiling all night. Thank you for tonight.

8. I'm calling it: best first/second/third date ever. Goodnight.

9. Let's do this again. Soon. Sleep well.

6. The "Show You're Listening" Message

(These are the most powerful. Personalize them. This shows you're paying attention.)

1. Goodnight! Good luck with that big meeting tomorrow. You're going to crush it.

2. I hope you sleep well. I know you were worried about [her friend/family member]. Sending good vibes.

3. Rest up. You deserve it after the crazy day you had with [her boss/project].

4. I hope your headache is all gone by the morning. Sleep well.

5. You worked so hard today. Turn your brain off and get some rest. Goodnight.

6. I'm so proud of you for [thing she did today]. Now get some sleep, superstar.

7. Sleep well. I hope you feel better tomorrow.

8. Let me know you get home safe. Goodnight!

9. I loved hearing about [her passion/hobby] today. I'll be dreaming about it.

10. Have a good sleep... and don't forget to set your alarm! (I know you said you were worried about oversleeping).

7. The GIF / Emoji Message

(Sometimes, a visual says it all.)

1. (Just send a single) 🌙

2. (Just send a) ❤️

3. (A GIF of) a cute cat/dog tucking itself into bed.

4. (A GIF of) a movie character blowing a kiss (like The Great Gatsby).

5. (A GIF of) a starry night sky.

6. (The combo of) 😴💤

7. (The combo of) 😘🌙

8. (The combo of) 💭❤️U

9. (A GIF of) Pedro Pascal's "goodnight" wave.

A Final Word

Remember: the best message is the one that's true. Don't just pick one at random. Pick the one that actually matches how you feel.

It's not about the words themselves. It's about the habit of connection. It's about letting her know that she's the last person on your mind.

And that is how you build a connection that lasts.