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How to Make a Girl Laugh Over Text in 15 Simple Ways

You don't need to be a comedian. Learn 15 simple, low-risk ways to be funny over text and stand out from the "hey" crowd.

Victory Olorunda
By Victory Olorunda
11/2/2025
Dating, Communication, Social Skills
How to Make a Girl Laugh Over Text in 15 Simple Ways

Let's get one thing straight: you don't need to be a stand-up comedian to be funny over text.

The goal isn't to get a "rofl LMAO." The goal is to get a "haha, you're silly," "stop, that's hilarious," or even just a genuine smile on her face.

Why? Because in a world of "hey," "wyd," and "k," the person who is fun to talk to is the one who stands out. Humor is the-fastest way to build a connection and kill the "boring" vibe.

The problem is, most people play it too safe. They're so afraid of a joke falling flat that they send nothing but "interview" questions.

If you're stuck in that loop, here is your playbook. 15 simple, low-risk ways to make her laugh (or at least smile) over text.

1. The Perfect GIF

This is the easiest win on the list. A well-timed GIF is a perfect reaction. Instead of typing "haha," send "haha."

When to use it: When she says something funny, relatable, or slightly awkward.

Example:

Her: "I just spent 10 minutes trying to open a door that was a 'pull,' not a 'push.'"
You: [Send a GIF of Homer Simpson disappearing into the bushes]

2. The Relevant Meme

A step above a GIF. A meme shows you're on the same "internet wavelength." If you see a meme that relates to a topic you just discussed (like her hating a specific food or loving a certain show), send it.

Example:

You: "This has big 'you trying to cook' energy"
[Send a meme of a 'dumpster fire' or 'salt bae' over-seasoning]

3. The Callback

This is the most powerful tool. It shows you listen. All you do is reference a joke or a topic from a previous conversation.

Example:

You: (Days after she told you she's terrified of pigeons) "Just saw a pigeon giving me a dirty look. I'm scared. I think it's one of your spies."
Her: "Lmao, stop!"

4. Playful Teasing (The Right Way)

There is a massive difference between "teasing" and "negging." Teasing is lighthearted and pokes fun at a non-serious thing. Negging is an insult.

The Rule: Always tease her about something positive or a silly, mutual 'enemy.'

Example:

Her: "I just finished a 10-hour Netflix binge."
You: "Wow, a true athlete. I'm impressed by your dedication. Did you at least get up to get water? 😂"

5. Absurd Exaggeration (Hyperbole)

Take a simple, everyday thing and blow it way out of proportion.

Example:

Her: "Ugh, my train is 5 minutes late."
You: "Five whole minutes? Unacceptable. I'm calling the president. This injustice cannot stand."

6. Confident Self-Deprecation

This shows you don't take yourself too seriously, which is incredibly attractive. The key is "confident"—poke fun at a small, non-serious flaw.

Example:

You: "I just tried to cook dinner. The good news: I didn't burn the house down. The bad news: my smoke alarm is now my biggest critic."

7. Playful Role-Playing

This is a huge way to break out of the boring "how was your day" script. Create a silly, imaginary scenario.

Example:

Her: "I'm so bored at work."
You: "Okay, new plan. You create a diversion, I'll warm up the getaway car. We're robbing the office snack machine. You in?"

8. The "Silly" Would You Rather...

Don't ask "Would you rather have $1 million or find true love." Ask something ridiculous.

Example:

You: "Okay, important question. Would you rather have fingers as long as your legs, or legs as long as your fingers?"
Her: "Hahaha, what?! Definitely the first one."

9. Random Observational Humor

Just text her a weird, funny thought or observation from your day. It shows you're thinking of her.

Example:

You: (Out of the blue) "Do you think squirrels ever get a song stuck in their head?"

10. Playful Misinterpretation

Intentionally take what she said and interpret it in the most literal, absurd way.

Example:

Her: "I'm swamped at work."
You: "OMG, you're in a swamp?! Are there alligators? I'm sending help!"
Her: "Haha, I see what you did there."

11. Inventing a Ridiculous Nickname

This goes back to teasing. Based on a story she told you, give her a silly, temporary nickname.

Example:

You: "Alright, 'Squirrel Queen,' I'll talk to you later." (After she told you a story about squirrels).

12. The "Fake-Serious" Opener

This is a great pattern-break. It grabs her attention and then provides a funny payoff.

Example:

You: "We need to talk."
(Wait for her to reply... "???" or "What's wrong?")
You: "About your controversial opinion on pineapple pizza. I just can't get over it."

13. Creative Emoji Storytelling

Instead of words, just send a string of emojis that tell a story.

Example:

You: "My day so far: ⏰ ➡️ 😩 ➡️ ☕️☕️☕️ ➡️ 🏃‍♂️ ➡️ 👨‍💻 ➡️ 🤯"
Her: "Haha, the 3 coffees is so real."

14. Puns (Use Sparingly)

A well-timed, slightly-cringey pun shows you're not afraid to be a little dorky, which is endearing.

Example:

Her: "I'm just eating some cheese."
You: "That's not a gouda idea... (I'll see myself out.)"

15. The "You-Won't-Believe-This" Mini-Story

Tell her a 2-3 text story about something funny that just happened to you.

Example:

You: "You will not believe what I just saw."
Her: "What?"
You: "A guy in a full-on business suit, on a scooter, with a tiny dog in his backpack. That dog looked more professional than me."

The Big Takeaway

The "fun" texter isn't a comedian. They're just playful.

They're not afraid to be silly, goofy, or a little weird. They're not playing it safe. They're having fun. Start with one of these, and watch how the whole vibe of your conversation changes.

P.S. It's hard to be "creative" on demand, especially when you're staring at a "k" reply. Having a "brainstorming partner" helps. This is where tools like Sabitok can act as your coach, helping you find that playful, confident, or flirty response when your own brain is just... tired.

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